Look at the careers of others and think about how you are doing compared to them

The Dhaka Times Desk I would say you are on the right track if you notice, what are the successful people around you doing and what are you doing compared to them? Such thinking will go a long way in changing your lifestyle. Suppose you are 26 years old. You see a 22 year old graduate working in a good company. Many people who are a little younger or older than you are the CEO of some company. They have improved their lives in a very short period of time.

Now think about your career. What are you doing now? Are they behind or ahead? If you are lagging, find out why you are lagging behind and the root cause. One of the main reasons why you are behind is that you have not been able to use your time properly. Ask yourself why you couldn't. You will get the answer. Many may say that poverty prevented them from building a good career. Remember being born poor is not a sin but dying poor is a big sin.

As long as you don't compare yourself with others, you can't have a good career. Because if you don't compare yourself with others, you won't get a proper idea about your current situation. Now ask yourself can you not be like them? Make yourself confident. If you believe in yourself, you can do anything. After starting some work, you see that you are not getting any good results despite your hard work. So you are thinking of giving up. But those who thrive in their careers are never so successful all at once. They have developed their career through many efforts.

অধ্যাপক জাফর ইকবাল স্যার বলেছেন, “সারা রাত ধরে তুমি একটি অংক করার চেষ্টা করে শেষ পর্যন্ত মিলাতে পারলে না। এখন ভাবছো সারাটা রাত জেগে সময় এবং ঘুম দুটোই নষ্ট করলে কোন লাভ হল না। সকালে অন্য অংক করতে গিয়ে দেখছো খুব সহজেই তা সমাধান করতে পারছো। এমনটি কিভাবে পারছো? এখন অন্য অংকগুলো সহজে সমাধান করতে পারার মূল কারণ হচ্ছে রাতের ওই ব্যাপক চেষ্টা। রাতে আপনার মস্তিষ্ককে যেভাবে কাজে লাগিয়েছেন, এখন তার সুফল পাচ্ছেন। সুতরাং নিজেকে পরিবর্তন করতে হলে সফল ব্যক্তিদের সাথে আপনার লাইফস্টাইল তুলনা করুন এবং সেই অনুযায়ী কাজ করা শুরু করে দিন। কখনই বিলচিত হবেন না। আত্মবিশ্বাস নিয়ে এগিয়ে যান।
But one day you can leave all those successful people behind and build your proper career.