The Dhaka Times Desk It is important to be transparent in everything. For example, in the case of marriage. We all know that marriage is a normal event in human life. Therefore, there should be a transparent approach in the decision of marriage.
What is most needed in marriage is a compromise and mutual understanding. It is called a debt settlement agreement. Marriage means a responsibility in which these 4 basic needs - physical, mental, genealogical and spiritual - have to be balanced.
Learn today about real perspectives on some important issues related to marriage in the light of love-marriage-family:
# Many people call marriage a matter of fate. Maybe it was just what fate had in store. But in fact, in the case of marriage, luck should not be completely depended on. Actions are also to be relied upon. Marriage also depends on preparation and effort. As one strives for a good job or good results; Similarly, you have to try for marriage. But the difficulty is when there is no plan for marriage, only fantasy. Then fate is blamed when fantasy is at variance. So you must plan your marriage in advance to decide what kind of life partner you want. At the same time, one should develop one's own qualifications to the fullest or one should look for a bride or groom according to one's qualifications.
# Beautiful face is not important in marriage. Qualities or qualified people should be seen. It is an important matter whether the person to be married is a boy or a girl.
# Marriage dowry or cabin should be reasonable and according to socio-economic status. That is, the dowry should not be oppressive to the recipient. It should always be within the scope. Besides dowry, another thing that comes up is dowry. Taking dowry from in-laws is nothing but cowardice.
# Marriage is a lifelong affair in human life. It's not a matter of seeing and talking for a little while. It is not right to get married just by looking at the CV obtained from the marriage media. On the contrary, the decision of marriage should be taken by thoroughly researching and scrutinizing those CVs. That is why it is desirable to have a marriage in a homosocial, homocultural and homoeconomic environment. In that case, the correct information about the groom or the bride will be known.
# If we talk about the matter of choice, we have to say that in the case of marriage, both the boy and the girl may have their preferences, but whether it is a boy or a girl, the decision of marriage should be taken only with the blessing of parents. It is never right to marry someone hiding the truth. It will be considered as a crime to marry a boy or a girl by concealing the information that the boy or girl is addicted to drugs, infected with virtual virus or has mental problems.
# Never get married without seeing the boy or girl yourself about marriage. Be it a boy or a girl, no matter what your parents see, never take a marriage decision without seeing it yourself. Because it is very important to meet the person with whom you will marry.
# will be the same wedding ceremony for both male and female parties. Mehndi night, yellow evening, bau-vaat, this vata, that vata - these are nothing but waste. Marriage management firms are created so that people can waste a lot of money.
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