The Dhaka Times Desk Nowadays our lives, worlds, relationships are inextricably intertwined with various methods of communication: texting, mail, phone calls, etc. It turns out that texting has both good and bad effects on relationships.
A recent report from the Journal of Couple and Relationship Therapy revealed that texting can deepen any relationship because it makes it easy to find a partner or love partner.
As important as texting may seem in a relationship, it is not. In fact, face-to-face communication is absent. Just exchanging messages increases misunderstandings in communication and can even destroy real relationships. So - texting has no significant role in establishing a warm relationship. Such warnings are also known from the report.
There are also some interesting uses of texting in relationships. A man texting his partner a lot is seen as a negative for a good relationship, but conversely, a woman texting her partner a lot is said to be a positive for a warm relationship.
According to Barbie Adler, CEO of Chicago-based matchmaking service Selective Search, people who rely on messaging to communicate in a relationship aren't really serious about their relationship.
Regardless of gender, it's clear that how someone uses messaging matters. A simple what-you-are-thinking message can be quite sweet and romantic to send to your partner at any time of the day. But being more serious is a bad idea to be limited to just exchanging messages.
Everyone should really take care of this matter even if you don't see in person it's important to keep in touch even over the phone. Another thing that is important for couples is to think whether the person being sent is actually near a computer or mobile phone whether it is sending a mail or a message. Because, a quick response to mail or message is a big factor in warming up the relationship because partners expect a quick response in most cases.
So in fact, with the increase in the use of technology, the means of communication used in relationships, such as messaging, are actually playing both beneficial and harmful roles. In that case we should use the good parts and avoid the bad parts - so that the relationship remains strong and beautiful.
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