The Dhaka Times Desk Marriage is a recognized means of social bonding. Through this bond we begin the journey of sustaining the existence of mankind. But even within this bond there are cracks. A family disturbance is created. Ultimately the result is a breakup or divorce. So every conscious man and woman should think once before marriage who should or should not marry.
On the face of it, it seems that relations will be good. Those relations later reached bitterness. Let's take a look at the relationships that should be considered before marriage.
1. classmate
The pre-marital relationship that gives the most impression of a beautiful marriage is classmate. But the sad thing is that they also experience the most bitterness after marriage. This could be due to two reasons. First of all, age, that is, the family mindset of girls comes much earlier than boys. As a result, when a girl thinks about family matters in a classmate's world, the boy's thoughts may not be compatible with the world. Second, because of the bond between classmates, they get to know each other more before marriage, which works against their attraction to getting to know each other later.
2. Brother or sister of a dear friend or girlfriend
The reason your best friend or girlfriend is loved is because he or she has enough in common with you. But it is wrong to think that these beautiful features will be found in his brother or sister. Because every person has different characteristics. Besides, many secret things happen with friends. Which affects the marriage.
3. Blood relatives
In our society there are many marriages in this relationship. But medical science says this should not be done as we may have many genetic compatibility in blood relationship. Which can have a detrimental effect on the next generation. Also there is a factor called blood Rh factor, if the Rh factor is the same in two people, there are many harmful diseases in the next generation.
4. Marry outside your religion
Such marriages are very insignificant in our society. But these relationships suffer the most. Because the husband and wife have to spend the whole life without the proximity of relatives.
5. Ex-boyfriend
It is natural that love can be love before marriage. In most cases, love ends in love. Then you have a new love, but if your old boyfriend or girlfriend comes back, will you go back to him? Never do it. This will lead to a bitter situation later. Remember that he who has left you once can leave you again.
6. To someone richer or poorer
Economic compatibility is a very effective approach to family bonding. Excessive economic imbalance can cause distress to both families. In reality, this type of relationship is possible only in drama and cinema.
7. media personality
Everyone has a latent desire to marry the heroines of drama movies. But in this type of relationship, your husband or wife who is involved in the media has to spend most of the time outside due to his professional reasons. If you don't have the mindset to accept it, it's better not to go into such a relationship.
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