The Dhaka Times Desk With the advent of new technologies, communication has become much easier these days. Technology has made our life easier, all tasks are being done in less time. But is this technology somehow harming your relationship?
There was a time when husband and wife would sit together face to face during dinner and share family problems. But nowadays modern means of communication like smart phone, Computer And the communication between us through all the other devices has become very technology dependent. Now we don't talk to each other unless we have to — the result is slowly creating distance between relationships, damaging interpersonal relationships.
We certainly cannot avoid the fact that technology is bringing us closer to each other in our virtual worlds but at the cost of our personal relationships. Distance is created even in real relationships.
A study found that 80% people are busy with their phone or laptop at their dining table. As a result, they expressed reluctance to talk to the person next to them on the pretext of being busy. The study also found that 76% husbands and wives slept very close together in their beds but did not have time to talk to each other because they were too busy browsing the net. 80% people report that when they talk on the phone or work on a laptop, they don't like interference, even from their partner. 89% couples say they don't want to take part in friends' parties or dinners together. But a few days ago this matter was in vogue. Couples are now more comfortable chatting with friends online or video conferencing.
Technology has become an essential part of our lives, so we cannot avoid technology. But we have to make sure we don't become slaves to technology. Communication through technology is by no means the equivalent of a face-to-face interview. So we need to take action before technology eases the breakup or relationship with our loved one. Emphasize real relationships rather than surrendering yourself to technology.
What to do to sustain the relationship?
- Try to communicate or talk directly with the loved one, spend some time alone together. Keep mobile phone off during this time.
- You must keep your laptop closed when you go to sleep with your loved one or sit at the table for dinner with relatives, relatives and family.
- When you are talking to your loved ones, stop browsing the net on mobile or laptop, it is impolite.
Reference: The Times of India
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