The Dhaka Times Desk Do you talk too much or can't hold back? Are you getting into trouble as a result? No problem we are giving you some ways to get rid of it which you can follow to become a good trustworthy person.
Talking in vain is a bad habit. Unknowingly, doing unnecessary words and wasting time by adding unnecessary stories, along with reducing your personality, often reveals the secrets inside you without your knowledge. Talking too much is more harmful and mistakes are more. Here are some tips for you to avoid talking too much.
Be careful: Try to be discreet. For example, you know that your girlfriend is cheating on her boyfriend, in which case you should tell your girlfriend about it. In this case, you must not tell the truth directly to your girlfriend. Talk to her about her boyfriend first, try to find out what she thinks? If she seems to be making light of her boyfriend's cheating, tell her. Otherwise take your time. Don't be direct or your girlfriend will immediately misunderstand you. Because the truth always hurts.
Pay attention to the time: First decide how long you can keep the truth you know a secret or is it worth it? As long as it doesn't happen, publish it at the right time. There may be many truths within your scope of knowledge, reveal them in time according to their importance.
You don't need to tell everyone that you know: It is normal that not everyone knows everything. What you know, someone else may not know. You don't need to tell everyone what you know. Showing off is never a good thing. Because of your show-off, you may become the eyesore of many people without your knowledge.
Change the subject: If you are in a chat with your friend circle and there is a topic being discussed that is related to a secret you know, try to change the topic of the chat and try to cover your vulnerability.
Write down: When you are embarrassed about a secret and don't know who to share it with, think about it yourself and write it down in your diary. In this case, if you think someone might read your diary, write on a separate paper and tear it up.
Avoid the tendency to listen to everything: If you feel that your range of knowledge has increased a lot and you have learned a lot of secrets about people or about anything, then reduce your interest in learning more about it. Make some space for yourself. Try to maintain your credibility with people.
Data sources: India Times.
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