The Dhaka Times Desk Obstacles will come in love love. But if you make a wrong decision due to those hurdles, it may not be happy for you in the end. Actually we are talking about marriage without family permission. Here are some questions to ask yourself in this situation.
1. Have you tried your best to get your family's permission?
Parents never wish their children bad luck. So have you thought about your failure to get their permission for this marriage, is there a flaw in your efforts or something else? So try your best to get family consent, listen to them why they are not giving permission.
2. Can you afford to leave your family?
You can be alone without those who have been with you for so many years. Yes in case of girls they have to leave but apart from that there is a lot of difference in this leave. So think again what you are doing is not wrong?
3. Have both sides heard "no"?
It was not wrong for you both to try to get family consent before marriage without family permission. Is that right? Think again whether both your families had to listen against this marriage despite their best efforts.
4. Is your loved one eligible for this?
We will call this question the turning point of your life. Is the person you are closest to leaving your family worth the sacrifice? Consider this question intelligently, not emotionally.
5. Have you thought of ways to solve your marital problems?
People have to face many problems and accidents in married life. Apart from those accidents, have you thought of any way to solve the problems? Because people have no control over the accident but it is possible to solve the problem, it happens in the family. How to do without family?
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